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Learn when to say yes and when to say no to your spouse to make the most of your marriage.
Only when you and your mate know and respect each other's needs, choices, and freedom can you give yourselves freely and lovingly to one another.
Boundaries are the 'property lines' that define and protect husbands and wives as individuals. Once they are in place, a good marriage can b...more
Only when you and your mate know and respect each other's needs, choices, and freedom can you give yourselves freely and lovingly to one another.
Boundaries are the 'property lines' that define and protect husbands and wives as individuals. Once they are in place, a good marriage can b...more
Published August 12th 2002 by Zondervan (first published January 1st 1999)
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Mary There is a lot of extra. This book really focuses on marriages and boundaries, conflict, and working through marital issues. I liked the boundaries…moreThere is a lot of extra. This book really focuses on marriages and boundaries, conflict, and working through marital issues. I liked the boundaries book and bought it. I’m buying this one because a lot of the information is totally different. (less)
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Mar 29, 2014Cindy Rollins rated it it was amazing
I am going to give this book 5 stars because I think it goes a long way in correcting marital problems that may arise from a misunderstanding of traditional Christian teaching about submission. I believe my own misunderstanding of this concept helped create problems in my own marriage.
Making a few tiny adjustments in my own attitude towards what it means to be in a Christian marriage has brought great healing to my marriage and I also believe it has helped me clean up some of my parenting.
My u...more
Making a few tiny adjustments in my own attitude towards what it means to be in a Christian marriage has brought great healing to my marriage and I also believe it has helped me clean up some of my parenting.
My u...more
Jun 21, 2012Justin rated it really liked it · review of another edition
When I first picked the book up to start reading it I was intrigued by some of the things written in the first few chapters. But, for some reason, it was very unpleasant to get through. Once I began to move deeper into the book to find how this was applicable to me was when I couldn't get enough of it.
When asked why I was reading this book at work I responded with, 'Because I want to be a better husband.' I wasn't sure how the boundaries thing would work out, but I am glad for the authors' appr...more
When asked why I was reading this book at work I responded with, 'Because I want to be a better husband.' I wasn't sure how the boundaries thing would work out, but I am glad for the authors' appr...more
Nov 22, 2012Barbara Spurll rated it it was amazing
Healthy boundaries in marriage are about protecting love, not changing your partner or getting even. The authors stress taking responsibility for our own shortcomings, making sure we have 'gotten the log out' of our own eye before before demanding that the other take the speck out of his. Great tips on styles of communicating to protect boundaries as well. The authors emphasize that marriage is difficult but most conflicts can not only be worked out but can lead to the intimacy you both long for...more
Oct 10, 2017Shellie rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
This book, thankfully, never once advises you to light candles, wear a red dress and stand on a chair clapping when your husband walks in the door. I have read plenty of those books and I appreciate that if someone’s relationship is feeling “stale”, those techniques might work to “spice things up a bit.” But if we’re using baked goods analogies here, many relationships could use a lot more help than just a little cinnamon spice or a layer of creamy frosting. Any relationship that has been around...more
Oct 13, 2014James Andersen rated it it was amazing
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This is an excellent book that well illustrates not only how your your willingness to put up with the character flaws of another will affect a relationship (whether in marriage or not!), but also how their willingness to put up with your character flaws will affect the same relationship.
Gone are the days of 'the quality of the relationship is the responsibility of only one party, YOU,' which I never did quite understand, and welcome the day of each party being held responsible for their own acti...more
Gone are the days of 'the quality of the relationship is the responsibility of only one party, YOU,' which I never did quite understand, and welcome the day of each party being held responsible for their own acti...more
Feb 29, 2016Kerryn Agyekum rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
Life-changing! This is a must-read for anyone who is married - just beginning, coasting along well, hitting a rocky patch or considering ending. Very practical, spiritual AND clinical advice about behaviors, cause, effect and solutions. WARNING: Be prepared to really confront your own thoughts, actions and motives.
Jul 23, 2018Fani *loves angst* rated it really liked it
I'm not a religious person and this book is filled with quotes from the Bible in every chapter. However, it was indeed helpful in trying to understand the errors we make in a relationship and it provided practical ways in which to better the situation at home. Very helpful and insightful.
Apr 30, 2019Brandon Vaughan rated it really liked it
This is one of the best marriage books that I have ever read. I love the entire boundaries concept. The only reasons that I didn’t give it five stars is because it would be almost impossible to outdo the original “Boundaries” book. Secondly, there was a small section in chapter 14 where the author seemed to humanize God a little bit. Although I don’t think that was his intention, as a Pastor I’m very picky about that. Overall I would definitely recommend this to couples thinking about marriage,...more
Really good stuff here. Highly recommended for newly married couples. Takeaway: boundaries are for the person seeing them, they're not a method of forcing behavior in someone else.
Sep 16, 2014Melanie rated it really liked it
I wish I had read this when I had first got married. I picked this up mostly because the hold list at the library for the boundaries with kids was too long. I am so glad I did because it has already helped me be a better wife. I got a lot out of the first half of the book. The second half is for troubleshooting problems and stuff and that didn't apply to my marriage as much.
Some great points I took away:
you marry someone not to complete you but to complement you. Both partners need to be whole p...more
Some great points I took away:
you marry someone not to complete you but to complement you. Both partners need to be whole p...more
Apr 24, 2014Matthew Parks rated it liked it
This is a hard book to rate for me. I love it and at the same time feel meh about it.
Disclaimer - I have not read the original Boundaries book.
There are so many good principles here and awesome quotes! Just for the quotes alone this book is worth the read!
I guess I just feel like there's a bit of mixed messages in this book. They try to really emphasize great things like:
* The need to set boundaries only on yourself, not on other people
* To not misuse boundaries to try to control someone or to h...more
Disclaimer - I have not read the original Boundaries book.
There are so many good principles here and awesome quotes! Just for the quotes alone this book is worth the read!
I guess I just feel like there's a bit of mixed messages in this book. They try to really emphasize great things like:
* The need to set boundaries only on yourself, not on other people
* To not misuse boundaries to try to control someone or to h...more
Aug 22, 2013Claudia McCants rated it it was amazing
Learn when to say yes and when to say no--to your spouse and to others--to make the most of your marriage and relationships. Only when a husband and wife know and respect each other's needs, choices, and freedom can they give themselves freely and lovingly to one another.
Boundaries are the 'property lines' that define and protect husbands and wives as individuals. Once they are in place, a good marriage can become better, and a less-than-satisfying one can even be saved.
Drs. Henry Cloud and John...more
The only reason I gave this book two stars is because there are some okay stories of couples and how they worked through various things. However, the book just barely gets that second star, because overall its cloying, sanctimonious, religious overtones were an overpowering cologne. For example, the authors constantly take credit for their patients' successful therapy outcomes -- 'I was able to show them that these are areas of 'preference,' not right or wrong.' Or 'We cured her 'workaholism.'...more
Jun 09, 2014Linda rated it it was amazing Shelves: christian, marriage, favorites, psychology
I loved this book! I do not give five stars to many books, but this book is worth every star. It is what I've been looking for, praying for, and longing for for years. It answers troubling questions, and gives hopeful, helpful, healthy advice to struggling marriages, especially when you have no idea how to fix what's wrong. It should be required reading for every newly married couple, as it would significantly reduce the divorce rate in our churches, if not our country. I highly recommend Bounda...more
Oct 12, 2015Anna rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
I feel like I need to immediately read it again. I've read Boundaries, and it was life changing. This book helped me apply that to my marriage, and gave me a much-needed slap in the face on how I was deceiving myself from reality of how my actions were effecting others. READ IT!! Seriously, even if you're not a Christian, it has very real principles.
May 18, 2013Janelle rated it it was amazing · review of another edition Shelves: christian, non-fiction, self-help, 5-stars
This is a terrific book, discussing many aspects of marriage and not just boundary setting. I borrowed it from my local library, but I'd like to buy my own copy so I can read it again and apply it more effectively to my own life.
Jan 02, 2013Jamie rated it really liked it · review of another edition
I learned a lot from reading this book. They had good stories to illustrate their points as well. I liked their idea that it takes individual people to make a marriage, and that each partner needs to claim their own stuff. No problem is 100% one person and 0% the other. Pretty good stuff.
Jul 02, 2014Scott rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
Great book. Highly recommend it. I've avoided reading books on Marriage & Family after being snowed with it during school. Great resource, and works with a variety of concerns and situations. Excellent.
Apr 07, 2008Shiloh rated it really liked it Shelves: 2013
I like this book better than I thought. It started off a bit vague, but quickly started to come together. It has been probably the best marriage book I've read next to For Women Only.
Highly recommended, especially to those who have been brought up with a traditional understanding of marriage roles. This study provides a much needed balance.
I'm glad I read an online version of this, because the cover pictured here looks pretty hideous. But the content is helpful to people dealing with any number and severity of marital issues. I definitely recommend this as a marriage book. The only reason I didn't give it five stars is because I thought the writing wasn't very clear in two sections.
Boundaries lead to order, responsibility and respect. It's true of property as well as relationships. Cloud and Townsend explain healthy boundaries an...more
Boundaries lead to order, responsibility and respect. It's true of property as well as relationships. Cloud and Townsend explain healthy boundaries an...more
This book was written for a practicing Christian audience. Despite not being a member of this group, I did derive good lessons and insights from reading it. Dr Cloud and Dr Townsend start out introducing the concept of boundaries and advise the individual that personal growth and development is essential to ensuring a healthy relationship. I learned a lot about myself through the pages that followed, places where I can improve in romantic and platonic relationships. They encourage taking all ste...more
Sep 26, 2017Ericka Clouther rated it liked it Shelves: nonfiction, author-male, christianity, 0-borrowed, marriage, love, 1990s
Christian advice on marriage. Not terrible advice even if you're not Christian (or are Christian but are dubious of Biblical marriage advice). Focuses on how to respect each other and cultivate real love based on mutual respect and empathy. There was nothing novel for me but clearly, a lot of people could benefit from these views.
May 25, 2019Elizabeth rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
Lots of wisdom and practical advice in this book. A boundary is something you set for yourself (not against other people). It goes over a lot what you are responsible for including your feelings, attitudes, choices, values and behaviors.
I read this book for over a year. We started reading it and going over it with another couple but didn't finish it together. I'm glad I finished it.
I read this book for over a year. We started reading it and going over it with another couple but didn't finish it together. I'm glad I finished it.
Jun 03, 2018Shhhhh Ahhhhh rated it really liked it
I'm declining to rate this book because I feel that my own ambivalence towards God as a tool leveraged against mundane problems and my own emotional turbulence around the subject of boundaries make me hopelessly biased away even from my baseline level of objectivity. I will give a brief review.
This book is about the ways in which insufficient, or insufficiently defended boundaries can sour relationships, giving many examples and permutations thereof, and sets about remedies. The themes are fair...more
This book is about the ways in which insufficient, or insufficiently defended boundaries can sour relationships, giving many examples and permutations thereof, and sets about remedies. The themes are fair...more
Don't be fooled by my rating. There is a lot of good information in this book. I highly recommend it to anyone who is in a committed relationship or who is ever thinking of it. (It would actually be a four-star rating if Goodreads' system allowed finer grading, like 3.5 or 4.5 stars. Because an 'excellent but not perfect' has to be given four stars instead of 4.5, this book has to be given three to keep things fair.)
The book is full of good information and illuminating examples, even if many of...more
The book is full of good information and illuminating examples, even if many of...more
Jan 09, 2017April Thrush added it · review of another edition
All throughout reading this book, I knew something was just really bothering me about it. I think I discovered that it was because although the writers of this book are Christians, they are primarily writing their views from a psychological standpoint, since both of them are psychologists. Therefore, when they brought in verses from the Bible, it seemed more obligatory the way they just slapped verses onto what they were saying. It wasnt biblical exegesis at all. Instead, they relied upon exampl...more
Feb 24, 2012Rebecca rated it it was amazing
Note: This book was written by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend.
Another wonderful book by these authors helping us to understand the best way to conduct our lives.
Learn when to say yes and when to say no--to your spouse and to others--to make the most of your marriage Only when a husband and wife know and respect each other's needs, choices, and freedom can they give themselves freely and lovingly to one another. Boundaries are the 'property lines' that define and protect husbands and wiv...more
Another wonderful book by these authors helping us to understand the best way to conduct our lives.
Learn when to say yes and when to say no--to your spouse and to others--to make the most of your marriage Only when a husband and wife know and respect each other's needs, choices, and freedom can they give themselves freely and lovingly to one another. Boundaries are the 'property lines' that define and protect husbands and wiv...more
Jul 16, 2015Teri Dona rated it it was amazing · review of another edition
I read this book as a possible tune-up or refresher course, so to speak, for a marriage that brings us both very much joy already. In reading the various scenarios, I was able to make peace with many old hurts from previous relationships and to see my part in their demise as well. Some of the cases were almost verbatim stories I had either experienced myself or heard from others: right on! I wish I had read this book 20 years ago, as I can see how ignorant I truly was about boundaries: what they...more
May 16, 2017Jason Scott rated it it was amazing
Audiobook. Great narration. I really wish there was an agnostic version of this book as it is *really* biblical but I think it also has some of the best information about setting boundaries and limits in marriage. I liked the part where they talked about different kinds of unfaithfulness, like how bringing a 3rd party into your marriage by talking to a friend instead of your spouse is damaging to the relationship, how withdrawing from conflict is being unfaithful, how losing yourself into addict...more
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Dr. Cloud has written or co-written twenty-five books, including the two million-seller Boundaries. His most recent books are Boundaries for Leaders and Necessary Endings. He has earned three Gold Medallion awards, and was awarded the distinguished Retailers Choice award for God Will Make A Way.
As president of Cloud-Townsend Resources, Dr. Cloud has produced and conducted hundreds of public semina...more
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“You get what you tolerate.” — 38 likes
“God's solution for 'I can't live that way anymore' is basically, 'Good! Don't live that way anymore. Set firm limits against evil behavior that are designed to promote change and redemption. Get the love and support you need from other places to take the kind of stance that I do to help redeem relationship. Suffer long, but suffer in the right way.' And when done God's way, chances are much better for redemption.” — 22 likes
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You long for a marriage marked by lifelong love, intimacy, and growth. And it can be yours -- if you set wise boundaries. Boundaries are the 'property lines' that define and protect each of you as individuals. Get them in place and you can make a good marriage better and possibly even save a less-than-satisfying one. By the time you've completed this workbook, you will kno...more
Published February 1st 2000 by Zondervan
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An excellent marriage book, and the concepts bleed over into other relationships beyond marriage -- parenting, friendships, extended family etc.
One concept that stuck out to me is that you cannot control others, you can only control your response to their actions. That definitely is important to hear if you tend to be manipulative or controlling. (Ack!)
One concept that stuck out to me is that you cannot control others, you can only control your response to their actions. That definitely is important to hear if you tend to be manipulative or controlling. (Ack!)
It was useful, but very dry. A little humor would go a very long way to improve this book in my opinion.
Apr 11, 2018Kathleen rated it it was amazing
This book is so helpful! It just gives language to a lot of issues that come up in a marriage, and tools to deal with conflict in a healthy way. Healthy for each, whole, individual person, AND healthy for the marriage. Based in the truth that each partner in a marriage is a whole person, beautifully and uniquely created by God, and each brings his/her own strengths and failures to the relationship. It encourages grace, forgiveness, and honesty, even when things are difficult. Highly recommend!
It is okay. There is some good information on how to reflect on your own part in issues however I am more of a concrete kinda gal. I need specific plans and ideas and help. This was general and assumes the mate will magically come around to a change of heart or, well good luck with that and bless you for sticking with it anyway.
Excellent book for not people in Marriage but leaders as well. Boundaries are the difference that help you thrive. We need them in friendships, marriages, work and life balance!
Why you shouldn't threaten anyone ever - also, autonomy and self-assuredness.
Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend are truly inspirational authors. I didn't really know what 'boundaries' were before starting this book. I saw quickly just how powerful they can be for a well-ordered life. I know this is going to be a great tool for improving my marriage and becoming the husband God made me to be.
Apr 14, 2013Chrystal rated it really liked it
My mom wanted to discuss this book with me because it has really helped her. I think it is fantastic! Everyone in a serious relationship should read it to find out if you and your partner are boundary lovers or boundary busters. Life is just better with healthy boundaries and communication!
Helpful and informative, but less well written than the original boundaries books.
Learning to value others as separate and distinct individuals. You complete me? Hollywood Hogwash.
Another practical and useful book for marriage.
Most helpful book on marriage I've read yet
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took me forever to read but to be fair; I don't read much nonfiction. I lose interest. great information and very helpful
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Great book for my husband and I as it will helps us to set boundaries on our marriage so that the love can grow between us.
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Dr. Cloud has written or co-written twenty-five books, including the two million-seller Boundaries. His most recent books are Boundaries for Leaders and Necessary Endings. He has earned three Gold Medallion awards, and was awarded the distinguished Retailers Choice award for God Will Make A Way.
As president of Cloud-Townsend Resources, Dr. Cloud has produced and conducted hundreds of public semina...more
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